Maureen Dowd writes of the dilemma of the powerful woman. Men, it seems, are scared off by them. So far, so good. But Ms. Dowd offers a theory about why they are scared off. They are scared off because they are only comfortable with "malleable and overawed" women, and high-achieving women are neither.
One has to laugh. Reading Dowd's piece, it is clear why men do not like high-achieving women. It is because they are snide and unpleasant in ways in which are simply unacceptable. That they are not called on it more is a product of the political correctness of our age and the fact that there is a simpler method: simply avoid them when possible. And, Lord knows, don't date them.
Consider this single column. In it, Dowd says that the world would be better "[i]f men would only give up their silly desire for world dominance," citing the Taliban and the Vatican as two ruinous manifestations of masculine desire. And that "[m]en, apparently, learn early to protect their eggshell egos from high-achieving women." In addition to being snide and condescending, they are apparently quite adept at whining:
Dowd has a point: Who could resist such an appealing package of meanspirited carping, snarky sarcasm, and superiority, especially when it is all wrapped up with a sense of entitlement? What an appealling package it all makes. It must be, as she says, that the male logic of dating down is "bollixed up."
One has to laugh. Reading Dowd's piece, it is clear why men do not like high-achieving women. It is because they are snide and unpleasant in ways in which are simply unacceptable. That they are not called on it more is a product of the political correctness of our age and the fact that there is a simpler method: simply avoid them when possible. And, Lord knows, don't date them.
Consider this single column. In it, Dowd says that the world would be better "[i]f men would only give up their silly desire for world dominance," citing the Taliban and the Vatican as two ruinous manifestations of masculine desire. And that "[m]en, apparently, learn early to protect their eggshell egos from high-achieving women." In addition to being snide and condescending, they are apparently quite adept at whining:
"As soon as you [women] say Harvard Business School . . . that's the end of the conversation," Ani Vartanian said. "As soon as the guys say, 'Oh, I go to Harvard Business School,' all the girls start falling into them."
Dowd has a point: Who could resist such an appealing package of meanspirited carping, snarky sarcasm, and superiority, especially when it is all wrapped up with a sense of entitlement? What an appealling package it all makes. It must be, as she says, that the male logic of dating down is "bollixed up."
